OAXACA, Mexico

a retreat for MINDFUL COUPLES

OAXACA, 
  Mexico

a retreat for
 MINDFUL COUPLES

5 Days in Oaxaca, Mexico

Discover connection, where culture meets Sea

April 9-13,  2025

April 9-13,  2025

Greetings from

Oaxaca

This is not therapy-
this is couple's wellness

$4,900 per couple

$4,900 per couple

 The experience ---

Spend 5 days in an oceanfront luxury villa with like-minded couples, each seeking adventure and connection in equal parts. This is an opportunity to increase intimacy and strengthen your connection to your partner through programming led by a Couples Wellness coach and culturally immersive activities.

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What's Included ---

- Hiking, cycling, and boat trips available to schedule from the Villa

- Mezcal-focused mixology lesson with hands-on experience at making cocktails

- Cooking class at the Villa led by a local chef

- A mezcaleria tour with visits to 2 mezcal distilleries with guided tastings

- Morning yoga sessions at the Villa for soulful introspection

- A private couple's photography session with a professional photographer

- Nightly salsa lessons with an instructor to inspire sensual connection with your partner

- Daily learning sessions led by a licensed relationship coach to increase connection and communication

- Three meals a day provided by an onsite Chef with all dietary restrictions considered

- 5 nights in a bungalow on a luxury, oceanfront Villa in Puerto Escondido

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View the daily itinerary

A solo couples' escape where privacy is key.

Group activities are included in the price, but are completely optional. Think of it this way- you'll have your own private bungalow at a boutique property. Meals are included, excursions are encouraged. And if you want to connect with other couples, that's up to you. You'll see them daily at the 1hr wellness sessions, but beyond that, it's just you and your lover.

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--- Hiking, cycling, and boat trips available to schedule from the Villa

--- Mezcal-focused mixology lesson with hands-on experience at making cocktails

--- A mezcaleria tour with visits to 2 mezcal distilleries with guided tastings

--- Morning yoga sessions at the Villa for soulful introspection 

--- Cooking class at the Villa led by a local chef

--- Nightly salsa lessons with an instructor to inspire sensual connection with your partner

--- A private couple's photography session with a digital gallery

--- Three meals daily provided by an on-site chef

Over five days, you'll be guided through an understanding of who you are as individuals and how to strengthen your connection with a focus on emotional intimacy and mindful communication. Through daily sessions, activation experiences, and custom packages created for each couple, you'll have the tools to learn and grow together.

The program ---

What's included

--- Five nights in a private bungalow in a luxury, oceanfront Villa in Puerto Escondido

--- Daily learning sessions with a licensed relationship coach

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And at the end of the experience, you'll feel more connected to your partner and will understand the actionable steps to increase communication, intimacy, and joy.

A solo couple's escape where privacy is key.

Group activities are included in the price, but are completely optional. Think of it this way- you'll have your own private bungalow at a boutique property. Meals are included, excursions are encouraged. And if you want to connect with other couples, that's up to you. You'll see them daily at the 1hr wellness sessions, but beyond that, it's just you and your lover.

--- A 6 Bedroom Private Villa with 4600 square meters of space to unwind

--- Each couple will have their own private bungalow with a queen-sized bed, en-suite bathroom, and an ocean-facing private terrace.

--- The Villa Pool which spans a length of 20 meters and is available for use day or night, offering a panoramic view of the ocean and open landscape

--- Private beach accessible only from the Villa, and just a 35min drive to the public beach in Puerto Escondido

--- Daily cleaning service and watchman securing the property each night

--- The Villa “Peace Room” is a library-living area, with a home cinema, ample chill-out spaces, a collection of art and design books, and an intimate panoramic view of one of the interior gardens.

--- The "Palapa", an open area to host group meals, daily sessions with your relationship Coach, and open sharing among guests

Casa Inspiracion

Where you're staying

A Luxury Villa in Puerto Escondido, Oaxaca

--- On-property private chef and 3 meals provided each day, with consideration of guests' dietary restrictions

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Oaxaca retains a sacred mysticism. This state and area in the southwest of Mexico is a tapestry woven with the threads of ancient civilizations. Its history practically vibrates at majestic archaeological sites; its streets showcase its UNESCO World Heritage Site status with their well-preserved Spanish colonial architecture juxtaposed with indigenous artistry. The past nearly walks along side you as you wander through the historic center, with its ornate churches, bustling markets, and vibrant zocalo.

why we love

Oaxaca

After just one conversation with a local, one plate of tlayudas or mole that has been passed down through generations, one shared toast and sip of mezcal... the beauty, heritage, and sacred ground of this land will be felt so much deeper than the stunning landscape that surrounds you, from Oaxaca Center to the coast of Puerto Escondido.

It breeds and breathes things that are made to last.

Oaxaca

...and so it felt fitting to host the first of what will be an annual couples' wellness retreat.

It also doesn't hurt that the average temperature is 78 degrees in April with only a 3% chance of rain.

-----Unwind, with a purpose.

And if that purpose is, "I just want to feel more connected to my partner" or to get the "us" back, then this retreat is for you. This 5 day experience will be a lifelong investment into your relationship. 

Five days to more connection, intimacy, and joy.

Total Trip Cost

Deposit

Payment One

 Final Payment

$4,900*

$2450

$1250

$1250

25% of remaining balance due Feb. 15th

Balance due March 1st

50% of trip cost due Jan. 30th to reserve your spot

per couple

*Traveling with another couple? 

Get a 10% discount off of the total trip cost!

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Pretty much everything! Think of this as an unrestricted yet all-inclusive vacation.

The price includes five nights in a private bungalow + en-suite bathroom in a luxury oceanfront Villa and 3 meals a day prepared by an on-site chef. We'll provide transport to and from Puerto Escondido Airport. You'll have four group sessions with a licensed relationship coach and tools to continue your journey together. There will be morning yoga practices daily and nightly salsa dance lessons. You'll go on a mezcaleria tour with tastings at two local mezcal distilleries. We'll also have an on-site cooking class led by a local chef and cocktail class led by a seasoned mixologist. 

What's included in the price?

You are able to cancel your trip for a refund up to 45 days before the trip (minus the deposit). Cancellations made between 30 - 45 days before departure will receive a 50% credit refund of all payments made. All credits are redeemable for 1 year, however, the trip does not need to be completed within 1 year. Cancellations made less than 30 days before departure are not eligible for a refund. The last installment must be completed on time and cannot be extended by any means. Please ensure that all flights that you purchase are insured. If the trip has to be canceled for any reason, you will receive a 100% refund, including the deposit, in the form of a credit.

What is your cancellation policy?

You should fly into Puerto Escondido International Airport (PXM). Private transport will be arranged from the airport to the Villa for each couple.

As a Certified Travel Advisor, I'll help arrange flights for all travelers. There are 6 nonstop flights per day into PDX from Mexico City, so most travelers will likely have a layover in MEX. 

What airport should I fly into?

This retreat programming is not reactionary therapy, so presenting it to your partner should not allude to there being an issue with your relationship. OURS is a wellness company focused on strengthening partnerships which increases intimacy (which is always a positive thing). It's exciting to feel more connected to your partner and we'll give you the space and tools to do so. In addition to the wellness program. you'll also be able to make lasting memories during the experience as a whole through the cooking class, mixology lesson, mezcaleria tour, dance sessions, morning yoga and private photography session!

I love how this sounds but have no clue how to present it to my partner... any ideas?

There will be 5 couples traveling, plus your host (that's Liz!) and her boyfriend who will be taking part in wellness sessions and leading group activities. The house has 6 private bedrooms, so expect 12 people under one roof. It will feel like a boutique hotel with the opportunity to engage and connect with other like-minded couples when you choose to do so.

The Villa will also be staffed with a chef, housekeepers, and a night watchman who will all be present but not staying on the property. 

How many people will be on the trip?

Yes! While this is a "group trip", we want you to navigate your experience the way you choose. Beyond the daily wellness sessions, you'll have the freedom to leave the property and explore the local area, to dive in to outdoor activities and eat any meals off-property rather than with the group. The mezcaleria tour, cooking class, salsa lessons, and daily yoga are all optional but are included with the price. If you'd like to plan day trips beyond Puerto Escondido. it is recommended that you rent a car as the hired driver will only assist with local experiences. You'll have the freedom to engage and indulge in this vacation the way you and your partner usually do, just with the added bonus of hour-long wellness experiences to strengthen your connection and enhance intimacy.

Will we have the flexibility to do things on our own during the retreat?

My goal is to host retreats twice a year and I'm already planning one for Spring 2026! I'll begin promoting with plenty of time to make plans so keep an eye out for the destination to be announced!
(Hint: It's in Italy)

THESE DATES DON'T WORK FOR US. WILL YOU BE PLANNING ANOTHER RETREAT?

Absolutely! I'm a Certified Travel Advisor so itinerary management is my strong suit. I'll recommend flights that will work within your schedule and budget. If your considering adding a few days on the beginning or end of the trip (maybe Mexico City?) I'd love to help with planning that as well!

WILL YOU ASSIST US WITH TRAVEL PLANNING AND RECOMMENDED FLIGHTS?

¡Por supuesto que no, mi amor! Que precioso… ¿cómo voy a planificar un viaje de esta capacidad y no hablo el idioma del país? Hago ceremonias en español, como tacos con frecuencia, viví en España (solo pregúntame sobre eso... me encanta hablar de eso) Créeme. Estás en muy buenas manos.

Translation: Nope!

I don't speak Spanish, is this an issue?

Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

An opportunity to deepen your connection  

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Get with the program.

Ours is a modern day relationship wellness company with a mission to help couples of all kinds proactively strengthen and invest in their relationship. Romantic relationships are one of the most important parts of someone’s life, and OURS helps couples build skills, connection and empathy so they can make their relationships healthy and last.

What is Ours?

Who is HLWT?

Have Lover, Will Travel is a wedding officiating and honeymoon travel planning company founded by Liz Norment. After writing custom ceremonies for over 300 couples and planning lover's getaways in 12 countries, Liz wants to dive deeper and invest in couples' connections- and do so in beautiful destinations all over the world.

Licensed therapist and relationship coach Shemiah Derrick will lead you through 4 days of interactive programming, designed to build empathy, strengthen communication, and deepen your connection. Before arriving, couples will take a fun assessment so your coach will already have an idea of the strengths and opportunities within your connection.

A Commitment to Couples' Wellness

and inspire intentional communication.

During this intensive, interactive coaching program, we'll focus on communication and connection and dive deep to create an understanding of these two fundamental relationship pillars. Recognizing that being comfortable being vulnerable is the key to increasing emotional intimacy, we'll tap into ways to create a safe space to break down barriers. Finally, we'll work on recognizing daily opportunities for connection, leaving you with actionable steps toward more intimacy and joy in your relationship.

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Spend 5 days in an oceanfront luxury villa with like-minded couples, each seeking adventure and connection in equal parts. This is an opportunity to increase intimacy and strengthen your connection, through programming led by a Couples Wellness coach along with culturally immersive activities.

Oaxaca

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Oaxaca

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We'll reach out soon with the next steps! But for now, just picture yourself right here.

With a margarita or without a margarita... it's your vision. We're just trying to make it come true.